These past few months (years maybe?) I have done a great deal of soul searching, prioritizing, and exploring. Life changes have enabled me to really take a step back and look into where I’m spending my time and what is important to me. It has also allowed me to really look into my business model to see what Southern Design’s priorities and talents are. Of course, owning the business, it’s really quite hard to know where the business ends and I begin… I’ll make an announcement on specific SDS news after the details have been hashed out, but just know that I’m so excited about the future of SDS.
During all this thought, meetings with other professional photographers, and time spent reading, I have really fine-tuned what I feel is important to me about photography and my business, and I want to try to put into words what my goal is with Southern Design through my different Photographic specialties. I will start with Wedding Photography:
Weddings are a wonderful mash of love, beauty, pressure, details, and emotion. I did my first wedding at 16 and not only fell in love with the pageantry and traditions of the event, but also with the photographer’s role in all of it. You see, my first wedding was shot on film, and throughout the wedding, as I shot, I was never truly certain what the images looked like, but here’s what I did know: my interactions with the bride, the groom, and their families in helping them be comfortable with everything that was happening was of equal importance. I recognized this as I watched my clients move from being stressed and detached into a more “photogenic” frame of mind just from my being sensitive and intuitive to their needs.
So through the years, I have come to understand portrait photography as more of a service, less of an art. It is absolutely artistic, but anyone that knows me recognizes that my attraction to weddings is not just the pictures I take, but rather the connection with my brides, my grooms, and their friends and family. The end result is a photograph, of course, but how we get there is so much more than that.
I am, admittedly, an art school drop-out. I spent a few years doing the standard art school thing, but quickly grew bored with the standard artist mentality. Creating art is very much an internal process and personal expression. It is rather selfish, which is neither here nor there, but my love for photography was so much more involved than just my own personal expressions. I could care less about inanimate objects, they have no life, no context, no emotion and I did not like the objectification of human subjects for my own art. Where I get satisfaction is when I have successfully put someone who is admittedly “terrible at taking photos” at ease on the other side of the lens and bring out their life, their context, their emotions … especially on what could be the most stressful day of their lives. I love me a challenge, and what’s more of a challenge than a wedding?
Naturally, your skill should never be in question. Switching from getting ready photos in a windowless, florescent lit basement of a church to doing bridal portraits at noon in the parking lot should be effortless and require as little time as possible… after all the bride and groom are running absurdly late and the church lady needs me to wrap it up 5 minutes ago. This is where “artistic” eyes are needed and why you don’t just hire a wedding coordinator, best friend, Uncle Joe, or Aunt Susie to do your wedding photography. While many of my clients feel the day is a beautiful blur, rushing past them, I can’t afford this luxury. The focus and determination that only seasoned professionals can muster is what is required here, and that is what I thrive on. The creation of beautiful portraits amidst high energy and emotion makes me so very happy and excited and is, luckily, a natural expression for me.
This is my hope for you, potential SDS brides: that despite this simple blog post, you’ll be able to see where my heart is and why I do what I do. After the music ends, your memories of the day are what you’ll take with you, so more than anything, I hope that your wedding day memories are more than art, and whatever you choose to do with your wedding photography is something truly beautiful and meaningful… but I also hope you’ll be doing it with me!
Love,
Sara B